Life.Love.&.Everything Else
I finally understand love....i guess it is just part of it
Friday, April 13, 2007
I used to think love... is like something that would make someone happy... because u would have someone around u.. and also it is like hot and sweet all the time... it just about really liking someone and being with someone, forever.

thats was the thinking when i was around primary 5... i thought that was love... and i thought i knew everything... hais...after 5 years... i really grew and changed... i no longer an attention seeker... i did learn alot of things... and one of them... lesson of my life.. it is really.... love...

one of them is that... love aint perfect... there sure be Quarrels and fights... like the case between shawn and joyce... they would fite every now and than... but if it was not becoz of these fights... they would noe they would be really meant for each other and really treasured the relationships.. and there would be people and things that affects ur relationship like... Carol jie and chai... their relationship aint really working well due to parents but they would just hold on to each...

Remember
Love is to hold on not to let go, Love is to forgive not to forget... and love is something sweet... aint bitter...

Next is that love is bitterly sweet... it is like... it just hurts when u realise someone u love really had to leave u... and u really love that person... quarrels... they are just bitter part of love... once It passes that stage... it is really sweet... sometime i look at my sister and her boyfriend... i really admire them. they really made a perfect couple... being there for each other when ever they need each other....

In additional... love aint being with someone actually in the relationship with them... for example Jason and her ex... I can see he still love her... everyone knows... it is just jason decided to let her go... becoz it is really no point being together... all he wan is her to be happy... so thats why love is just like being there for someone u really love...

Being in love is not about being in love with someone u like... but being with someone that really cares about u and truly want to be with u... like all my friends... they all enjoyed love... even though there is sadness... happiness... tears... anger... it is just the happiness is something all human needs.... and it is from the heart.... that wat that is truly matters...

Lastly... love is actually plainly sweet... not something that is really strong... that is thanks to michelle... my maple gf... thank you got teaching me this... we may not be really close together as bf and gf in maple... but the love... something i really treasure... not something strong... but it is great...

I guess thats part of love... i will seek for my answers...

Zach aka JY
Look what i have done....